Does he love me 4lads one girl?

Oki.. So I'm in love with this lad called Joe great lad and everything but it's hard for me because he doesn't want people to know I'm going out with him and we've bin going out a month and his mom doesn't know were going out she's the person who doesn't want her son to go out with me. So it's bin hard but a the same time as I've bin going out with him I've had feeling towards three ova lad aid an,Reece and Ben:l bens a boy who everybody laughts at but I love him and he's writing on his board he love me.. But I don't know if it's a joke. Aidans a close mate and I don't think anything will happen and theres Reece :l I've loved him for two years and its hard I don't know if he loves me or of he's flirting he always floret and texts me but he loves Emma.. And I love him.. So I need help I love 3 ova people and my bf what should I do? I love them all:( please help.xx